Wednesday, February 27, 2013

15 Reasons for Keeping a Gratitude List

When times are difficult it can be hard to remember to be grateful. That's unfortunate because that is probably when you need it the most.

When you are grateful you cannot be sad or depressed. When you are grateful all you can feel is happy.

The benefits of being grateful are:
  1. cure broken or difficult relationships
  2. cure lack of health
  3. bring more money into your life
  4. reduce  fear
  5. reduce worry
  6. reduce  grief 
  7. eliminate depression 
  8. find solutions to problems
  9. find happiness 
  10. with clarity
  11. have patience
  12. with kindness 
  13. have compassion 
  14. with your understanding 
  15. bring peace of mind
If you are having difficulty understanding how gratefulness can help with all the points that I listed, try the 28 day practices outlined in Rhonda Byrne's book The Magic and/or follow along with me on my journey starting at the beginning, Day 1.


Be Grateful for Yesterday Today and Tomorrow
Darlene Nemeth

Grateful for Yesterday

Be grateful for all the blessings you have received in the past.
  • I am grateful that my daughters and granddaughters were born beautiful and perfect. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful to all the people who helped through the tough times. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful for all the money I have received. It came in many different forms: coupons, free stuff, discounted items, pay checks, gifts, bonuses etc.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Grateful for Today

Be grateful for all the blessings you are receiving now.
  • I am grateful for everything and everyone in my life at this very moment.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful for the money in my pocket and in my bank account. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful for the light above me so I can see what I am doing. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful to be alive and healthy. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful for the health of my loved ones. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Grateful for Tomorrow

Be grateful for the unknown blessings already on their way to you right now.
  • I am grateful for my granddaughter who will arrive within the next month. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful for all the money I will receive. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  • I am grateful to live a long, healthy and prosperous life with my family.

I think my lists are good to start with. I can always add more as time goes by.



Have you started your gratitude journal yet? I would love to hear about it. Maybe share a short gratitude story. That would be wonderful.



And don't forget, I'd love it if you joined me on my journey, we could learn as we travel together.

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I have a lot to be grateful for, too. I have a family who loves me even though they never say "I love you" and I have a laptop that has helped me start learning again. I am meeting new people (online) and am blogging. I love it. I am also happy that I did not lose my leg in the ski-dooing accident I was in 8 years ago.
I learned about your blog via a LinkedIn group discussion. I am grateful you are a member of LinkedIn!
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
I am grateful for my daughter, that she is healthy and happy. I am grateful for my husband who gives me the opportunity to stay home with our daughter and supports my blogging venture 100%. With Hurricane Sandy hitting our area hard last October, I am so grateful for our home. I'm grateful that our home and our families homes weren't damaged too bad. I found your blog on LinkedIn also!
It's wonderful that you are able to stay home with your daughter and that you have a supportive husband. You are very fortunate.

I'm glad we don't get hurricanes here in Ontario and we haven't had a twister in this area either. Knock on wood. I can't imagine how terrifying that was for you. I get nervous when I hear the wind howling and the Lilac bush whipping the side of my house. Did you write about that experience in your blog?

Thanks for stopping by. I really appreciate the comment.
Yes, I have so much for which to be grateful. Thanks for the reminder to accentuate the positive. Grateful for my family and all that I can do to make more of the positive feelings I get when I do work that I enjoy or connect with others. Grateful I can look at the negative feelings and not be afraid of them.
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
We spend far too much of our time trying to get more. Thank you for the reminder to be grateful for what we have.
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
Hi Darlene and welcome to the BHB group!

I, too, value the importance of gratitude and have blogged about it a few times. I think that so many times we get so busy with everyday life that we forget to step back and smell the roses and be grateful for the friends and achievements we have made. I don't have a gratitude journal, but I did start a success journal at the encouragement of a friend and that indeed makes me grateful, as I am reminded of the things I have done and wonderful progress that is being made - albeit slower than I'd like.
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
This is one of my new years resolutions; to be more content and happy with what I have rather than worrying and stressing about what I don't. When something little happens and I start to pity myself, I instantly switch my thinking and remind myself of how much worse off I could be and how lucky I am to have my health and people who love me. If more people felt gratitude rather than greed, the world would be a better place.
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
Thank you for sharing something so personal with us. I think it is a great idea to write down what you are grateful for and I think it is even better that you can voice it to an audience. Good for you!! I may take you up on joining you on your journey.
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
I'm grateful for a lot of things, but right now I'm grateful for the hot crossed buns that are sitting on the kitchen bench, calling to me ;D
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Agree with you completely Darlene.

Wish more people would focus on what they should be grateful for instead of complaining about what they don't have and focus on keeping up with the Joneses.
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I've started the Two Thousand Gifts journaling daily thanksgiving and it has truly revolutionized my life! Thanks for sharing.

Mary
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I love writing down what I'm grateful for in my journal. I kept a gratitude journal years ago and would like to start a new one. Thanks for sharing your blessings! Sweet hugs, Diane
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Darlene I have learned so much from Gratitude! I love your lists and your journey. I hope you will continue to join me at Gratitude Sunday and if you include a link back to my blog party I would love it! Big Hugs, Linda
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Thank you for linking up to The Great Blog Train! We loved having you! And you helped us have a successful third run down the tracks!

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Thanks for allowing me to join The Great Blog Train. See you next week.

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